Bambo wachikondi amasamalira mwana wake wamkazi nthawi zonse. Akalowa mkusamba ngati akuyenera kutero, akalowa kuchipinda. Ndipo msungwanayu, mwa njira zonse, amafunikira chisamaliro cha kholo lake. Eya, si momwe amaganizira, koma akudziwa chiyani za kulera? Abambo amadziwa bwino kuposa kumuphunzitsa phunziro. Nthawi imeneyi mutu unali kugonana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ndipo mwana wake wamkazi ankawoneka kuti waphunzira bwino. Iye anali kumvera pamene iye anali kuputa iye. Ndithudi, iye anafunikirabe kulimbitsa nkhaniyo, ndipo Atate analonjeza kutero. Eya, ndipo ali ndi chikondi chochuluka kwa iye, nayenso.
Momwemonso, okwatirana omwe ali m'chikondi amagonana mwachikondi ndipo simungawachotsere, mumatha kumva chikondi kuchokera kutali ndipo ngakhale kanema amawonetsa bwino, ngakhale munjira yonyansa. Kujambula ndikwabwino kwambiri, anyamata amasewera bwino, zikuwonekeratu kuti amayesetsa momwe angathere, kukuwa, kubuula, zonse ndi zawo, ndimakonda momwe chilichonse chimaganiziridwa pano, ndikuwonera mosangalala.
Kugonana ndi mlendo kapena bwenzi latsopano kuli ndi zabwino zake. Zimawonjezera zochitika, ngakhale lingaliro la choletsedwa chotero kwa ambiri limadzutsa, kuwerengera mphamvu ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo. Kugonana mu bar kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa ngati pabedi. Kugonana kumatako ndi kusisita kwa banjali kumayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa.